Online forum for people to share stories of spouses making false accusations of abuse to gain advantage in divorce & custody.
Online forum for people to share stories of spouses making false accusations of abuse to gain advantage in divorce & custody.
This site will be publishing stories about people who falsely accuse men of abuse to gain leverage in divorce and custody cases. If this has happened to you or someone you know, then we want to hear from you. We will be focusing on cases where women make false accusations to obtain custody and alienate children from their fathers, but we encourage any submission that highlights how easily the courts and government agencies can be manipulated by someone who falsely claims to be a victim of domestic violence. We will begin publishing your stories in December of 2024. All submissions will be reviewed and vetted before publication. Please attach any relevant documents that corroborate your story.
Hear directly from a survivor of parental alienation.
From the Child's Perspective
The Anti-Alienation Project was founded by a courageous young woman, Madi. When Madi was nine years old her parents got divorced, and her mother made her believe her dad was abusive, bad and didn't love her. For the next 20 years Madi rejected her dad, who actually loved her, wanted her in his life, and was never abusive. In 2022, she figured out the truth. In 2023, Madi began the Anti-Alienation Project to raise awareness about parental alienation from a child's point-of-view and has become an amazing resource for others like her, helping them navigate and find support to heal. Please visit Madi's website and consider donating to this worthy cause.
We have no affiliation with Madi or her group. We just think she's great!
Studies have shown a strong link between parental alienation and borderline personality disorder. One study by The Best Interest of the Child Institute published in the Journal of Forensic Psychology and Child Custody included the following findings: "There is lack of knowledge and scientific research about BPD parents in domestic relations and the effect on close family members especially children and spouses who are the true victims. Parental alienation occurs when a BPD parent infuses his or her own negative beliefs into the child. BPD parents have lack of insight and are largely unaware of their own behavior and how that behavior is affecting the child and the other parent. Caution is warranted among judge’s attorneys and custody evaluators for projective identification. This arises since BPD individuals are capable of empathy and emotional manipulation to induce behavior in the others in order to control them." The study's conclusion was: "The failure to identify, diagnose and understand BPD leads to devastating results in the family court and has long term negative effects for the society. Science-based research and collaboration among major academic medical and legal institutions are needed to protect the most vulnerable individuals in family court, namely our children. Only with a scientific approach and full understanding of this severe mental illness can we prevent and intervene in a timely manner."
People with BPD are prone to making false accusations. If your partner exhibits the symptoms of BPD, it is important for you to document anything that may prove your innocence if you get the sense that your partner is accusing you of something you did not do.
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We are not affiliated with the fraudulent non-profit organization with the same name, which was purportedly formed to help survivors of domestic abuse, and then held one private fundraiser, applied for government funding, and ceased "operations" after its grant application was denied without ever providing a single service to domestic abuse survivors. In other words, we actually care about this issue and we are not sociopathic talentless grifters trying to use an important emotional issue to raise money for our personal use.
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